Mothers day and gifts
Is giving gifts to your mother on Mother’s day permitted in Islam?
Allah Subhana Wa Ta’ala Says:
And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him and do good to parents (Quran 17:23). On another occasion, Allah Subhana Wa Ta’ala, says أَنِ اشْكُرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيْكَ}} (Be grateful to Me and to your parents 31:14)
It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “A man came to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said: ‘O Messenger of Allaah, who among the people is most deserving of my good company?’ He said, ‘Your mother.’ He asked, ‘Then who?’ He said, ‘Your mother.’ He asked, ‘Then who?’ He said, ‘Your mother.’ He asked, ‘Then who?’ He said, ‘Then your father.’”
(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5626; Muslim, 2548)
Islam places strong emphasis on enjoining family ties. There should be respect amongst family members all the time and no one day is needed to be singled out for this.
You can buy gifts for your mother without occasion or on other occasions like Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha.
Islam does not recognize the concept of Father’s Day and Mother’s Day. In fact, to single out just one day of the year to honour our fathers and mothers is an injustice to our parents. Every single moment of our lives is for our fathers and our mothers. Shariah has placed much emphasis on the rights of parents.
If for some reason one does want to give a gift to his/her mother on mothers’ day one should realise that the day has no special importance or religious significance whatsoever in our religion.
Allah knows best.